Interesting & Inspiring People: Edith Stolley
It takes a lifetime to build and cultivate something of significance and substance to look back upon. Bits of Edith Stolley’s life and family history glimmer in conversations, like flecks of gold in a river of sand, and evidence wisdom, strength and determination forged by life.
Many refer to Stolley tenderly as Grandma Stolley. For the thirteen grandkids and approximately 27 great-grandchildren this makes sense, but it’s not just these who call her grandma.
In 1994 Stolley and her late husband Donald Stolley took note of four empty bedrooms in their home. Their children were adults, their grandchildren young adults and their home quiet. The empty home prompted a discussion to host foreign exchange students. The Stolleys nearly hosted two Japanese exchange students. However, the influence of their good friend who worked as a local social worker proved powerful. Convinced there were kids that needed a home more, the Stolleys pursued foster parenting.
Stolley called the Health and Welfare department in Sandpoint and inquired about becoming foster parents. The very next day the Stolley’s received their first foster child. Over the past 23 years more than two hundred children have stayed for short and long periods of time in those four bedrooms.
Despite the significant loss of her husband and son in the same year, Stolley continued to foster children. At 74 years of age Stolley continues to offer a safe, secure and loving home to kids during a difficult time in their lives. She shuttles them around like moms a fraction of her age, attends meetings and functions at schools, sometimes testifies in court always advocating for the best interest of the child.
Like the best, Stolley sometimes wonders why she continues to foster children, but her actions testify why: Her heart is resilient, generous and willing to continuously give to others. This is why many call her grandma, this is what a lifetime builds and this Edith Stolley is one reason why Boundary County thanks you.
The foster care system has a significant need of families to offer a home to kids in crisis. To learn more about foster care licensing contact the Idaho CareLine at 2-1-1.
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Who inspires you? Boundary County is an oasis of incredible creators, thinkers and doers. Brushing shoulders with such people leaves one inspired and curious which is why I need YOUR help! Nominate an interesting or inspiring Boundary County resident by sending an email to julie@julieholly.com! Please remember to include your contact information and what makes your nominee stand out!